Jealousy is the worst thing ever, can’t even describe how much I hate it, and I get it ALL the time!!� It takes over. whether they’re ‘yours’ or not, whether you know them well or not. it comes out of nowhere, and it doesn’t let go. Don’t let jealousy fool you. I think it doesn’t show that you care about the person. I think it shows you are insecure. It’s just another name for insecurity. Don’t waste time on jealousy. Sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind. Jealousy means I actually give a damn about you…Jealousy comes from counting others blessings instead of your own. It is the result of one’s lack of self -confidence, self -worth, and self -acceptance. Jealousy is ugly. It is an ugly trait but it’s so funny when people overdo it. Jealousy and destroys relationships before they even begin. Jealousy is the bag that will hold you back in your journey. Live free by focusing on your plans for the future.

Blessed is the man who admires without being jealous.



I was jogging one day and i noticed a person in front of me, about 1/4 of mile. I could tell he was running a little slower than me and I thought, good, i shall try to catch him. I had about a mile to go my path before i needed to turn off.

So i started running faster and faster. Every block, i was gaining on him just a little bit. After just a few minutes i was only about 100 yards behind him, so i really picked up the pace and push myself. You
would have thought i was running in the last leg of London Olympic competition. I was determined to catch him.

Finally, i did it! I caught and passed him by. On the inside i felt so good.
“I beat him” of course, he didn’t even know we were racing.

After i passed him, i realized i had been so focused on competing against him that i had missed my turn. I had gone nearly six blocks past it. I had to turn around and go all back. Isn’t that what happens
in life when we focus on competing with co-workers, neighbors, friends, family, trying to outdo them or trying to prove that we are more successful or more important? We spend our time and energy running after them and we miss out on our own paths to our God given destinies. The problem with unhealthy competition is that its a never ending cycle.

There will always be somebody ahead of you, someone with better job, nicer car, more money in the bank, more education, a prettier wife/gf, a
more handsome husband/bf, better behaved children, etc. But realize that
“You can be the best that you can be, you are not competing with no
one.” Some people are insecure because they pay too much attention 2
what others are doing, where others are going, wearing & driving. Take what God has given you, the height, weight & personality. Dress
well & wear it proudly! You’ll be blessed by it.
Stay focused and live a healthy life.

There’s no competition in DESTINY, run your own RACE and wish others WELL!


You won’t ever achieve anything great if you don’t believe in yourself and It’s pointless trying to keep it real with someone who isn’t real!
Someone will always be prettier. Someone will always be smarter. Someone will always be younger. But they will never be YOU. Be different and Being different is simply being you! To wish you were someone else is to waste the person you are. As long as you stay true to yourself you’ll always stand out. People’s opinions don’t mean anything. It’s about whether or not you can look in the mirror & Love, Respect, BELIEVE in the person staring back at you.

Don’t be afraid telling fake people talking behind your back that, You are different, but you ain’t perfect …they must Understand that.

Let me hear you say:

“I may not be perfect, but at least I know who I am.”


Got haze, we complain. Got rain, we complain. Got sun, we complain. No rain, we complain. No sun, we complain. Everything we complain.
If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude. Don’t complain.
If you dont try your absolute hardest for the things you want in life you have no right to sit back & complain when things don’t go your way.
Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.
Don’t make wrong choices than complain about it. Smarten up.

If you launching a complain, at least know WHAT you complaining for. HOW to complain. WHO you complaining to. More important… know WHEN to complain.

More smiles, less stress. Less hate, more blessed. Live more, complain less.


Respect is a two-way street. If you want to receive it, be prepared to give it in return.
People will only disrespect you for as long as you tolerate it. The worst kind of disrespect you can get is from yourself. Love yourself, value yourself, and respect yourself. Carry yourself like royalty. In your eyes you should be seen as nothing less than a queen/King. Self respect can’t be bought on a clothing rack or obtained by modesty. It comes from knowing what you’ll accept & what you won’t. Its about knowing your worth, knowing who you are, & loving yourself because of it. Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth. Your boss may be less appreciative, you know your worth. People these days gain attention by losing respect. Respect lasts longer than attention. Respect yourself first so you can be able to respect others, you will be respected.
You’re a boss not a WordPress post. People don’t have to like you but they WILL respect you. Being respected has much greater value than being liked.

Stop Talking and Communicate!

Writings of a Mrs Mommy

My Mr. and I we talk, a lot.   And we talk a lot with each other.  I know a lot of you are thinking, well that’s great, communication is a building block or even the main foundation of a good relationship and that is true.

But sometimes a little quiet is nice too.   You know how they say (who is ‘they’ anyway…?) you know you are really comfortable with someone when you can sit in a room together and be quiet together with out it being awkward?  Well that never happens with us, unless we are watching a movie, playing a video game, mad at each other or the kids are around etc. (which covers most of everyday..)

I love our conversations and I wouldn’t change it for a minute, well except the time I changed it for five…let me tell you about it.

The other night we did our…

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